男票

有人在后台询问花礼君，说女朋友太过独立，女友从小被放养，所以早早地人格独立，是一个凡是能自己解决的事绝不麻烦别人的人，不撒娇也不依赖。不得不说，他很是很欣赏女朋友这一点的，也从未想过要改变她，只不过，谈恋爱的时候确实会有让男人受委屈的感觉，丝毫感受不到被需要，好没尊严啊。怎么办？

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现实生活中，让女生不得不独立，有时候，她也希望能有个依靠，哪怕只是短暂的放松也好，但她的意识总会告诉自己不能够。她开玩笑的说“太独立并不一定是牛逼，也可能是苦逼。”

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