恋爱,相处

恋爱是一件美妙的事情，承载着很多人，美好的，心酸的，脆弱的经历。这些经历是人生中难免会经历的。在处理恋爱关系的时候，有哪些方法是经过历史的长河验证并且真的有效的呢？今天一起来看看防止恋爱分手的4个情感诀窍。

沟通、沟通

goutongshilaoshengchangtandewentile。zailianaixiangchuzhong，henduoshihou，womenbicishuangfangdoutaileile，womenxiangyigerenananjingjingdizuoxiezijideshiqing，zuizhongdejieguojiushi，zaimeiyougoutong，yemeiyoubawentijiejuezhiqian，douyijingdaotoujiushuile。doushuoqinglvzhijianbuyaodaizhewentiqushuijue，ruguolianggerenzhijianchuxianlewenti，neimejishiaoyebushuijueyeyaobawentigoutonghao，jiejuehao。dangran，zaizheigeguochengzhongwomenyeyaojubeilianghaodeqingtinghefenxiangjiqiao，zaiyuduifanggoutong、tantaodeshihounenggoupingjingerqingxidibiaodazijidexiangfaheganshou。

不要期待完美

zailianaiguochengzhong，jinkenengdibaochikaifangdexintai，yaozhidaohenduomaodundoushiyinweichayichanshengde，danrenzhijiandoushicunzaichayide。ruguoniduilingyibandechayibunengrongrenhejiena，neimenimenzhijianhuiyinweizheixiechayichanshengyuanyuanbuduandemaodun。

dangran，zheibingbushiyaoqiunizaiyiduanguanxizhongyiweidituoxie，zhishirangnixuehuiqingtinghelijie。lianggebutongderenzaiyiqi，zonghuiyouhenduodebutong。ruguonibushizonganzhaozijidefangshilaiyaoqiulingyiban，buqidailingyibanzongshiwanmeidechuxianzainimianqian，xiangxinnimendeguanxihuihaoxiangchuhenduo。lianaizuihaodejiezoujiushiwulunshimeihaohaishizaogaodeshike，zongnengyiqixuexi、yiqichengzhang！

尊重你们之间的不同

jibiannimenyongyougongtongdejiazhiguan，gongtongdexingqu，gongtongxihuandeshiwu，dannimenzhijianrengrancunzaibutong。kenengzheixiebutonghefenqihuirangnimenzhijiandeguanxibiandegengyouyali，xiangyaohaohaohebicixiangchu。neimewomenruhecainengzuodaoni？shouxian，yaoxuehuizunzhongduifangdebutongzhichu，xuehuilijiehexinshangduifangdebutongzhichu，erbushiyiweidishitugaiduifang。dangnizhenzhengdekaishixinshang，shenzhixiangshouduifangdebutongdeshihou，nihuifaxiannimenzhijianduochulehenduolequ。

给彼此创造空间

除了沟通、交流之外，恋爱学的另一个重要智慧就是：“lianaizhongkeyixianghuyicun，danshijueduibukeyiwanquanyilaiyulingyiban”。suiran，zaiyiduanlianaiguanxizhong，xianghudeaihezunzhongshitoudengdashi，danshibaochizijiqiangliedeziwoyishi，baochizijidepengyouquan，yijixingquaihaoyeshibibukeshaode。