ganenjiesuiranbushiwoguochuantongjieri，danzuoweiyigejieri，yeshizhideqingzhude。guanjianshiganenjiedehanyishiyonglaiganenbieren，zheiyeshihewoguodechuantonglinianshixiangyizhide。ganenjiekeyiganxiesheini？hualiwangxiaobianjuedeshouxianyaoganxiewomendefumu，yaoganxiefumu，burujiuchenzheganenjiejifumusongli。zheifenlisongdeshixiaohenuanxin。

congwomendeguaguazhuidiqi，shengwomendeshifumu，yangwomendeshifumu，peiwomenyiqizhangdadeyeshifumu。 zheifenyangyuzhienyidingshiyaoyongwujindexiaodaolaihuibaode。xiaoshikeyibiaoxianzairichangshenghuozhizhongde，yekeyizaiyixiezhongyaojieritixian。ganenjieyeshiyigehenhaodejihui，womenkeyizaiganenjiejifumusongli，yibiaodawomenduitamendeganenzhiqing。

ganenjiejifumusonglikeyisongshenmeni？

①ganenjiejifumusongli--xianhua

xianhuayonglaibiaodaganenzhiqing，shifenmeihao。zaozaiquyuandeshidaijiuyouyonghuabiyugaoshangdepinzhi，houlaimanmanyanbianweisonghuajibierenlaibiaodazanshangtaren、ganentarendeyuyi。rujinzuoweizinvjifumusonghua，keyibiaodaduitamenxinkubuyudeganenzhiqing，yeshiduijiatingxingfuankangdemeihaozhufu。

②ganenjiejifumusongli--tamenrichangxuyaodedongxi

fumudoushijiweiwuside，zicongtamenchengweifumuzhihou，henshaoweizijimaidongxi，quechangchangmanzuhaizideliwuxinyuan。ruguoniyijingzhangdale，youdulidejingjinengli。neishishihouzhuanhuashenfen，huannilaichongaizijidefumule。duiyutamenshebudemaidedongxi，zuoweiernvnikeyimaixiatadangzuoliwusongjitamen。biru，nianjidale，nikeyijitamenmaiyingyangpin。tianqilengle，nikeyijitamenmaiyifu。

ganenjiejifumusongli，duiyufumulaishuo，songjitamendebujinjinshiliwu，songdeshihaizidedongshihexiaoxin。ziyuyangerqinbudai。zheijuguhuashuodehao，womenyaozhenxihefumu、qinrengongchudemeiyigedangxia，xuehuiaihutamen，baorongtamen、ganxietamen。